Learning from History

A Jewish paramedic faces Jerusalem, his prayer shawl hanging off his shoulders while a Muslim paramedic kneels facing Mecca, his prayer rug unfurled before him.

A Jewish paramedic faces Jerusalem, his prayer shawl hanging off his shoulders while a Muslim paramedic kneels facing Mecca, his prayer rug unfurled before him.

While in my over three quarters of a century on this planet I have never experienced anything like the events taking place world-wide with Covid-19, there are aspects of it, from my long view over many years, that I can see repeating themselves. Take for instance, the debate over calling this disease the “Chinese” virus which has caused people to yell and/or attack people on the street who look Asian.    

I have always had an interest in the Second World War.  While I was only an infant during the course of that conflict, I think my interest evolved because my father was shot down while flying a B-29 bomber over China.  I felt a compulsion to learn about the war’s history as it was also a record of a parent I had neither met nor known. 

Because of this interest, I would listen with attention to my mother’s tales about events after the bombing of Pearl Harbor in 1941.  She was attending the University of California at Berkeley, and would tell two stories from that time that I always remembered.  The first was the fact that many Americans of Chinese descent wore signs around their necks declaring themselves Chinese so their Asian faces would not be mistaken for Japanese by a frightened population. She also, in something I always admired, organized her whole sorority to go to a neighborhood corner store owned by a Japanese-American citizen to buy up as much as they could of his merchandize. She wanted him to have some money in his pocket as he and his family were taken to the desert detention camps where they remained for the duration of the war.  In this instance, once again, fear of the unknown causing us as a nation to do something to some of its citizens that was indefensible. 

The next instance was from my own personal experience.  My step-father worked for the United States Information Agency and was assigned to one of their libraries and information centers in Hiroshima, Japan in 1956.  As we left home, the United States was facing one of its earliest onslaughts of a disease which was named by Americans the Asian flu.  We arrived in Japan and I promptly fell very ill with flu-like symptoms.  We were staying with another American family stationed there and our hosts, alarmed as I got worse, had a Japanese doctor come to the house to check me out.  I was prodded and poked and then this Asian man announced to his American audience that I had a very bad case of …….. the Occidental Flu.

The truth is that disease knows no national boundaries, no defining race, no form of government, no gender. It is a thoughtless, mindless entity that strikes out indiscriminately wherever it finds a home.  We, as its universal potential victims, need to use our intelligence, courage, and kindness to fight this epidemic rather than fight among ourselves.  Perhaps the picture which accompanies this blog, that has gone viral, expresses the best hope for mankind.    

Some Thoughts for Our Times

Some Thoughts for Our Times

Up until now this blog has been about describing the view of life from out here on the frontier of the human experience. The purpose has not been to separate out those of us of a certain age, but to share the challenges, joys, and foibles of older adults. We seniors are not something separate, but just humanity at a different time of life.

An Interesting Question

An Interesting Question

The current health emergency has had many warnings about how dangerous the newly rampant virus is for older people.  It seems to be sparing the young and landing on the old, especially those with serious health problems.  Yet the news is full of older folk who are basically ignoring the warnings and planning to head off on trips and attend events as planned (if those things are even being held.) 

History ---- Sort of

History ---- Sort of

I recently read an article concerning an iconic picture from the Vietnam War.  The picture is of a wounded Marine lying unconscious on a tank surrounded by his wounded brothers-in-arms   A celebrated book as well as a major museum exhibition, have told the harrowing tale behind the image of that wounded Marine. However, both of them got it wrong, and the true identity of that young man has finally been established beyond doubt these many years later. 

Coziness

Coziness

The book is called Cosy, and was recently reviewed in the Sunday paper along with three other books extolling the benefits of what seems to be the lost art of coziness in our modern world.  This is not news to me, nor is it probably news to those of you who are of my generation. 

Sterling Silver

Sterling Silver

      I have a most remarkable set of sterling silver flat wear which I inherited from my grandmother.  She was raised in a very wealthy family in Chicago which she left, over their objections, to serve in the Red Cross in World War I.  There she met my grandfather, a flyer in that newest branch of the military.

Venice

Venice

     Venice, an old city past its prime, is hanging on as floods overtake it while at the same time it sinks into the rising ocean. I can sympathize, for I too am old, past my prime, and often have the sensation of sinking.  Yet in my case it is not rising water, but life that sometimes threatens to overwhelm me.

Reading

Reading

Years ago during high school, I spent a summer with my grandparents. My grandfather was reading, among other books which I do not remember, Admiral of the Oceans Seas, a biography of Columbus, and the Harold Nicolson diaries, both hefty tomes that lay on the table by his green leather chair. While I may not remember the other titles, I do know that all of the books he read that summer were non-fiction.

Central Park

Central Park

Even if you do not live in New York, or have never been there, you probably know this identifying landmark of the city.  Created in 1857 on 78 acres in the middle of the city, Central Park was designed by one of the leading landscape architects of the day, Frederick Law Olmstead. It was the beginning of a movement that fostered green spaces in the middle of cities. 

Cosmetics

Cosmetics

On a recent trip to the hairdressers (of course it is grey under there) I picked up a ladies magazine to read while I basted in the hair goop as it did its concealing thing. I was very surprised to see Helen Mirren gazing out at me from a page that was advertising a new L’Oréal product.

Disposable Clothing

Disposable Clothing

I recently came across an article in the newspaper which had a term that was new to me.  It referred to a store which sold ‘disposable clothing.’  The article did not mean a paper dress that was thrown away after one use, but a whole store of clothing that, while very trendy, are also very poorly made.  They are meant to last for only one season, and then be thrown away.  My grandmother would be horrified.

Thank you notes

Thank you notes

When I was growing up no present giving occasion passed without the required thank you notes at the end of the celebration. The joy of finding out what was under the Christmas tree or inside the birthday wrapping paper was followed by the knowledge that I was going to have to write a note to the giver of that gift. At six this was a hard burden, but I hope I progressed over the years to truly being thankful as I wrote those missives.

Empathy

Empathy

Aging seems to involve a constant examining of long held beliefs in light of the changes that time brings. I think back to my time in college, where females could not wear pants to class, there was such a thing as married student’s housing, and girls’ dorm rooms were off limits to all males except family members. In addition there were curfew hours (for the girls only) that put them in the dorms by ten during the week and midnight on the weekends.

The Good Old Days

The Good Old Days

Those that are my age are often puzzled at what goes on with younger generations today.  As a group we often shake our heads and secretly, and often not so secretly, long for what we think were the ‘good old days.’  But the fact is that along with the accumulation of knowledge and living that comes with a lifetime of ups and downs, also comes a subtle fog that settles over the past.